Tree of Life: When a Loved One Dies

An information and resource guide about grief and mourning through the lens of Jewish wisdom to support congregants and community members.

When in mourning, the world can feel very lonely. There’s an emotional hole in our hearts and, often, a tangible hole in our daily lives. Our collective experience and wisdom are powerful. Generations of our people have experienced the deepest sadness and have used Jewish tradition to find ways to heal. The result is a road map through loss that is thoughtful, realistic, and therapeutic.

Grieving is highly personal. When we lose somebody dear to us, our world is challenged, and we must reaffirm or reconstruct it. Grief means integrating the loss into our life stories so we can move forward with purpose.

Written by Rabbi Jennifer Weiner, this 8-page pamphlet, sold in packs of 10, includes a connection to Jewish texts, resources from both within and outside the Jewish community, and a ritual—such as a blessing or meditation—to offer ongoing support and coping mechanisms. (The 5 x 7” pamphlets are designed to fit existing racks)

Tree of Life is a series of pastoral care pamphlets spanning a wide range of social and emotional topics to offer information, resources, and support to congregants.

People come into a synagogue and other Jewish institutions with a variety of needs. It can be difficult for the clergy and other leaders to be able to address all the demands of their community. These pamphlets give you outreach tools to support congregants who wish to explore what may be stigmatized issues in a comforting, spiritual, and information-based way that can also open a pathway to deeper conversation.

Written by rabbis and/or experts on the subjects, each pamphlet includes a connection to Jewish texts, resources from both within and outside the Jewish community, and a ritual—such as a blessing or meditation—to offer ongoing support and coping mechanisms.

Topics include

• Coping With Depression and Anxiety
• When a Loved One Dies
• Caring for Your Elderly Parents
• Jewish Views of the Afterlife
• Understanding Gender Diversity
• Responding to Antisemitism
• Divorce
• Facing Illness: Healing the Spirit
• Fertility and Pregnancy Loss
• When a Family Member Comes Out as LGBTQIA+
• …and more.

Pamphlets are 8 pages long and are sold in packs of 10. In a convenient 5 x 7 inch format , the pamphlets are easy to hold and designed to fit in existing racks.